idk sis

Wear your softness. Remember your strength.

You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out

A podcast + community for women navigating  singleness, wife life, motherhood, infertility, career moves, grief and heartbreak, full-heart fatigue + everything in between.

We’re allowed to sit in the unknown

 — and still stand on what we do know.

Idk. Why We're Here.

Idk, Sis was born from a journal entry I wrote in 2009, at the end of a painful marriage, launched after the onset of a beautiful redemption love, and spans the lessons, heartache + hard truths I learned along the way. This isn’t just a space for heartbreak. It’s for the woman who’s exhausted by the life she prayed for. It’s for the mom stretched thin, the woman questioning her career or her calling, the one quietly wondering, Is this all there is?

From heartbreak + hardship to full-heart fatigue, we unpack the “I don’t knows” of life and return to the “I do knows” that anchor us. Even answered prayers can leave you asking questions. Even good people get dealt bad hands. Even a good life can leave you longing for rest, healing, and truth. This is a space for the heartbreaks, the breakthroughs, the messy middles, and the quiet truths we cling to.

We don’t have to have it all figured out. We’re allowed to sit in the unknown — and still stand on what we do know. 

Welcome home, Sis. 💜

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Refill. Release. Rinse + Repeat.

A little R + R has always been good for the soul. Whether your cup needs to be filled or you have a story you can't carry alone anymore, you're in the right place.

Refill

Real stories of real lives. And life — real life — is laughter and loss, coffee and crying, dreaming and doubting, growing and grieving. We dive into what’s raw, real, and beautifully human.

Release

Your voice matters here. From 'tbh' moments to 'She Doesn't Know it Yet' letters, this is a space where your story can help someone else heal, laugh, or feel a little less alone.

Return

Come as you are, every week. Whether you’re on a walk, driving, or winding down at night, these conversations will remind you that you are seen, loved, and part of something bigger.

Your Voice Matters

Empowering Women's Voices, One Story at a Time

Issa conversation, sis. You're not just listening, - you're part of this. Listener-led segments are your chance to be heard, be held and be part of a collective conversation that's bigger than any one of us. Ready to tap in? Use the buttons below or DM us on Instagram → @idk_sis_talk
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Tap in, Sis.

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✨ tbh (to be brutally honest)

Because sometimes, you just need to say it out loud.

tbh is a space for confessions, quiet truths, and unspoken thoughts — shared anonymously by listeners who are done pretending they’re fine. Real women. Real feelings. No filter. Just honesty that heals.

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✨ wwyd (what would you do?)

We all hit moments where we’re unsure, stuck, or spinning.

wwyd is where listeners submit real-life scenarios — and we talk them through, together. Sometimes it’s advice, sometimes it’s just holding space. Because you don’t have to figure it all out alone.

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✨ she doesn’t know it yet

A nod to every version of you — past, present, and becoming.

Let's reflect on what we wish we knew back then, and speak life over what we believe is ahead. Letters of grace, growth, and clarity. Some are addressed to younger us. Others are for the woman we’re still becoming.

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